I will unfollow you if…

  • you find this to be tl;dr. If you can’t take five minutes to read and respect this, you know how to unfollow me.
  • you are too snarky or sarcastic. I have social deficits which make it difficult for me to detect when someone is doing this, and when I do catch it the read I always get is “mean spirited”. I don’t want that in my life.
  • you are slut shaming- we all have a right to sexual freedom and expression. If you don’t approve, go elsewhere but please keep your opinions to yourself on the way out.
  • you demean the feelings of others. People disagree, they have different perceptions from you, and will not always view things through the same lens. That is no excuse for being an asshole or dismissing their feelings as invalid. This particularly applies to racism, sexism, and other forms of oppression.
  • you use the words “retarded” or “retard” or “fag” or “faggot” in casual descriptive conversation. I have specific reasons for finding these phrases triggering and hurtful, and frankly I don’t want to put up with that kind of insensitivity anymore.
  • you can’t handle that I am fat. This Tumblr is centered around political and social issues associated with being fat, aging, queer and disabled. It should go without saying that if you display hatred for (or intolerance of) any of those issues…you’re gone.